
When you can’t make them see the light, make them feel the heat. ~ Ronald Reagan
When the water starts boiling it is foolish to turn off the heat. ~ Nelson Mandela
I am a leader. Leaders always get heat. They’re always going against the grain. Jimi Hendrix got heat; Bob Marley got heat; Miles Davis got heat. Every great artist got heat. Heat means you’re doing something right. ~ Ziggy Marley Read the rest of this entry »
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Tags: anger, counseling, heat, Photography, Relationships, therapy, Writing

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Yes, I continue to torture my cat for the purposes of my blog (well, not really). There was a repair man at my apartment today and I needed to lock my cats on the balcony for an hour while they worked. Two of the cats enjoyed it, the third was NOT happy – as the photo shows. As I watched my screaming cat, I thought of how often we do the same in relationships in our lives. How many time have you wanted to scream at someone to let you in???
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The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. ~ Eleanor Roosevelt
All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them. ~ Walt Disney
A man is not old until regrets take the place of dreams. ~ John Barrymore
Dream and give yourself permission to envision a You that you choose to be. ~ Joy Page Read the rest of this entry »
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When people hurt you over and over, think of them like sand paper. They may scratch and hurt you a bit, but in the end, you end up polished and they end up useless. ~ Chris Colfer
Some people won’t be happy until they’ve pushed you to the ground. What you have to do is have the courage to stand your ground and not give them the time of day. Hold on to your power and never give it away. ~Donna Schoenrock
What if the kid you bullied at school, grew up, and turned out to be the only surgeon who could save your life? ~ Lynette Mather
I am all for cracking down on inappropriate digital behaviour. Too often the connected world is an excuse for some coward hiding behind a keyboard to bully someone else. ~ Tony Parsons Read the rest of this entry »
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It is not flesh and blood but the heart which makes us fathers and sons. ~ Johann Schiller
Family: A social unit where the father is concerned with parking space, the children with outer space, and the mother with closet space. ~Evan Esar
Call it a clan, call it a network, call it a tribe, call it a family. Whatever you call it, whoever you are, you need one. ~Jane Howard
Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city. ~ George Burns Read the rest of this entry »
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Have you ever noticed that sometimes the most simple gestures can be so profound? Have you ever had a stranger brighten your day with a wave or a smile? Recently we were driving home from shopping and our car pulled up next to a very worn down public bus. In the window next to our car was a mother and two young girls. The mother encouraged these adorable girls to wave to us. We waved back, causing them to bounce up and down with delight and wave more vigorously at us. This made our day. Read the rest of this entry »
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